I had goosbumps on my body when reading this. We women are so much stronger by will, by heart by mind. If the man has muscles and guns, we have inner strength that nobody can take it. I cannot say i understand what you going through as I have been born in free country where I could od what I wanted, dress how I wanted, tell what I wanted, but my parents grew up under Soviet Russia so I know a little bit of it...

We should be able to decide how we want to look and our lives to be...